1) Your child is crying. Do you:
A) Pick them up immediately, hold them, coddle them, and smother them in kisses and praise. Continue until they tell you to stop or turn 18.
B) Ignore them. They'll figure out eventually how to fix what's ailing them on their own, after all, you're never too young to learn how to reset a dislocated elbow.
C) I don't know that I can answer definitively with so little information, I mean, what are the circumstances? Is she hurt? Then I'm absolutely comforting her. Is she just cranky or bored, then maybe I'll let her cry a little bit and see if she resolves it on her own.
2) It's bedtime. Do you:
A) Sleep with your child in the same bed, always there to comfort, breast feed, and smother in love. Continue until the child tells you to stop or turns 18.
B) Put child in crib. Close door. Ignore all crying, screaming, and whimpering until morning. Alternately, get infant an apartment of their own, it's never too early to learn self-reliance.
C) Well, I don't know again. I mean, I guess sleeping on their own would be nice, and we will all probably sleep better, but if she isn't having it, I don't know that I'm totally against sleeping in the same room, at least for a little while.
3) Time to go to the Pediatrician. Do you:
A) Defer all immunizations until your child contracts the disease. No one dies from tuberculosis anyway.
B) Demand that the pediatrician combines all the immunizations needed for the first ten years into one mega-shot. For best results, make your child self-administer it.
C) I think I'll talk with the pediatrician and take their advice pretty seriously, since they went to, what, 15 years of medical school, and have since dedicated their lives to helping infants, and deal with these issues every single day.
4) Your child is hungry. Do you:
A) Breast feed. Nothing but breast feeding. Again, repeat until they ask you to stop or turn 18.
B) First off, if it is not a designated feeding time they will just have to wait until the next scheduled eating period. We're not running a 24 hour diner here. And breast feeding? Ha, we'll give them something they can really use. Like a steak. Oh, and don't cook it, let them figure out how to turn on the stove.
C) Feed them. Something. I mean, breast feeding is great, if it works for the mother and child, but at some point you've got to stop. And then, I guess formula, if they still need it, or food of some sort.
5) Your child is misbehaving. Do you:
A) Hug them and calmly explain that their behavior is brilliant and wonderful. Breast feed them. If behavior is really bad (stealing, hitting, murder), maybe kindly ask them if they would enjoy possibly redirecting their energies in another direction, but only if they want to.
B) Tell them no. Firmly, clearly, and often. If this fails, tell them they are a disappointment and send them to their room/apartment.
C) Well, what are they doing? Are they just being somewhat annoying, or are they acting in a seriously violent/destructive manner? How could one response possibly correct for all misbehavior? Should the courts just have one verdict for all crimes?
Please put down your #2 pencil and await results.
If you answered all A's:
Congratulations, you're what is known as an "attachment" style parent. Your child will grow up nurtured, loved, and emotionally fulfilled. They may die of tetanus, but then every rose does have it's thorn.
If you answered all B's:
Congratulations, you're what's known as a "babywise" style parent. Your child will grow up independent, strong, and resilient. They may become a psychopathic murderer, but as they say, you can't make an omelet without turning a few eggs into psychopathic murderers.
If you had any mix of A and B or, god forbid, any C's:
You are obviously unfit to parent, attempting to apply logic and thought to a process that should be marked by blind adherence to a theory created by an author primarily motivated by profit and personal gain. Your child is doomed. You should just do everyone a favor and drop them off at the fire station now.
